wanna have fun...

Wassup Chimps,

Today I'm going to talk about how to have maximum fun in your life without...

Getting Fat, ugly and broke.

Feeling guilty 24/7 like you just murdered your best friend's dog.

Being on drugs to escape your miserable life.

In fact...

The 'frame' that I'm going to talk about is going to -

Make you jacked, rich and charismatic.

Achieving a state of bliss that is impossible to achieve otherwise

Eventually get you an entry into high ranks of society (might even get you a name in the history books)

So what is this frame?

Let me explain...

First you need to figure out what you want in life. This should be easy as it requires nothing but 30 seconds of honesty.

Now the second part is where it gets tricky. Once you know what you want, you have to figure out how to get it.

But getting something that you want usually comes with a lot of effort.

Putting "effort" is synonymous with "hard".

This is where 95% of the audience dips out.

"naaah fuck this, this feels like a chore"

And thus, resistance is created. You have put a mountain between you and what you want.

Notice the part where I said - "YOU PUT IT THERE!"

That mountain is a figment of your imagination. It was created by your attitude towards the things that you want.

The good news is...

This one change in attitude will remove the resistance that you create between you and what you want.

See...

You have to understand that going after what you want is FUN.

Not work.

The word "work" induces the same emotions that a slave would feel 200 years ago before starting a 16 hour shift in a coffee plantation and getting whipped .

We think of work as a chore, but no human being ever faced any resistance for having fun.

A few examples from your own lives...

Playing video games for 8 hours a day is not a chore and is actually not hard at all. It is fun and you enjoy doing that so you never feel any resistance in doing that.

But anyone that plays video games knows that beating final bosses is so hard and does in fact require a lot of effort. But you never complain.

Getting good at your favourite sport also requires a lot of time, effort and hard work. But you never complain.

Why?

Because its FUN.

Do you see what I'm getting at over here?

Your attitude towards the work that you have to do to get what you want is going to determine the outcome.

Whether you feel that it's fun or you feel it's work. You will in both cases be right.

Because it reality, doing what you want and going after what you want is fun.

For me...

Working out is fun.

Working on my business is fun.

Writing this blog is fun.

Being extroverted and social is fun.

I do not feel that the long hours I put into it are exhausting or boring or mundane.

And what is eventual outcome of this if I keep doing this?

Rich, Jacked and Charismatic.

It would be unreasonable for me to not be that.

So you have to associate the word "FUN" with the things that you want and it won't feel like a chore.

It will take regular conditioning but it does work.

No human being ever complained about having fun.

Remember that you're not working, you're playing.

Your work should feel like play to you but look like work to others. This is where your unfair advantage lies.

So go out there and have some fun.

That's it for today.

I'll head out.

Bye.

P.S - “I’m always ‘working.’ It looks like work to others, but it feels like play to me. And that’s how I know no one can compete with me on it. Because I’m just playing, for sixteen hours a day. If others want to compete with me, they’re going to work, and they’re going to lose because they’re not going to do it for sixteen hours a day, seven days a week.”

― Naval Ravikant